1.) The internet is filled with so many amazing things, you can access just about any information you’d ever want or need. You can do just about anything, stay connected with people from around the world, lots of things. Just like anything in life, the internet does have its drawbacks as well, one of the dangers of using the internet is misleading information. Sure, you can look up anything you want on the internet, but that doesn’t mean its true. According to education.purduecal.com, “A couple of years ago a fascinating speech by Kurt Vonnegut appeared on the Internet. The most interesting thing about the speech was that although it certainly sounded like something he might have written, Vonnegut was not the author. The speech was something a newspaper columnist had written, and someone else had simply inserted Vonnegut's name and put it into circulation on the Internet.” You can use websites like: http://hoaxbusters.ciac.org/, and http://www.urbanlegends.about.com/science/urbanlegends/library/blxatoz.htm to help spot hoaxes and other things like that.
2.) Another danger of the internet and new media is that it can be unsafe for children. That doesn’t mean children shouldn’t use the internet, its a part of everyday life in school and such. It’s just good to be aware of the dangers and if your child is using social media such as Facebook, Twitter or Instagram to just monitor it. People can be who they say they aren’t on the internet and children may fall for it and get themselves into a dangerous situation. According to the education.purduecal.com website, “Considerable concern focuses on the possibility of sexual exploitation on the Internet. The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children in Alexandria, Va., surveyed 1,501 youngsters age 10 to 17 and found:
One in five Internet users received a sexual solicitation or approach over the Internet in that year.
One in 33 received aggressive sexual solicitation, including trying to arrange a meeting, gifts of meals or money, and phone calls.
One in four had an unwanted exposure to sexually explicit material.”
3.) According to Kelly Wallace on cnn.com, social media isn’t all bad for kids, sure there are dangers, but there is danger with every thing you do in life. Eileen Masio, monitors her daughters instagram account all the time and states that, “I think just as damaging as social media can be, it can ... help to build self-confidence, too. When they post selfies, all the comments I usually see are 'You're beautiful,' 'You're so pretty,' 'Oh my God, gorgeous.” There can always be a downside to things, but there can also always be a positive side to things. “In fact, according to a report last year by the nonprofit child advocacy group Common Sense Media, one in five teens said social media makes them feel more confident, compared with 4% who said it makes them feel less so.” Some people can be cyberbullies, but at the same time, people can be very encouraging to one another at times as well.
4.) For every time there is cyberbullying, there is also a positive to social media. Also according to Kelly Wallace on CNN.com, “Rebecca Levey, co-founder of a video sharing platform for tweens ages 7 to 12 called KidzVuz, has seen it firsthand. During a special partnership with the Tony Awards earlier this year, kids were encouraged to either make videos singing parts of their favorite show tunes or talk about why theater was so important to them.
"The response from other kids was so awesome. I mean we had kids who were truly tone deaf and it didn't matter," said Levey with a chuckle. "Everyone's like, 'You're awesome,' 'Go follow your dream,' 'Don't give up.'" That is huge, you would think kids would be saying awful things about the others, but they were so encouraging!
5.) When a kid may feel like an outcast for liking a certain type of music or theater or something like that, they can just go on the internet and find people in their area who share similar interests. “Social media has been a place where teens, who might be feeling isolated, can cry for help. For example, when an 18-year-old recently posted on his Facebook page that he was thinking of jumping off the George Washington Bridge, which connects New York with New Jersey, Port Authority officers managed to connect with him on social media and encouraged him to get help.” (Wallace).
6.) Social media can also help to get your voices heard. According to Kelly Wallace on CNN.com, “After a Christian motivational speaker, who believes "dateable girls know how to shut up," spoke at a high school in Richardson, Texas, students took to Twitter to express their outrage.” One student tweeted “Don't you guys just love listening to sexist comments, irrational comparisons and blunt stereotypes w/o actual proof or evidence?" Often people rant on social media about issues, but sometimes just with the right perseverance, they can get their voices heard.
7.) According to Mizuko Ito, leader of the Digital Youth Project, “There are myths about kids spending time online — that it is dangerous or making them lazy. But we found that spending time online is essential for young people to pick up the social and technical skills they need to be competent citizens in the digital age.” Social media helps people become more tech-savvy. It also helps you learn to communicate. (Goldberg Goff).
8.) “Certain technical skills in the coming years are not going to be just about consuming media. It is also going to be about producing media. It is not just about writing a blog, but also how to leave comments that say something. Learning to communicate like this is contributing to the general circulation of culture,” according to Lisa Tripp a professor at FSU. (Goldberg Goff). Social Media helps to get their voices out. It’s better to say something than hold it back, you never know if you could help someone out.
9.) Also according to Goldberg Goff, “One Fairfax County mother of a middle schooler, who asked that her name not be used to protect her daughter’s privacy, says she was skeptical at first when her daughter wanted a Facebook page.
“I was hesitant for all the reasons we hear about, such as how it could bring in unwelcome visitors,” the woman says, “but eventually I realized that this is the main medium for kids keeping in touch. It has gone from e-mail to IM to texting to Facebook in such a quick progression. [Social networking] is like the modern-day equivalent of the lunch table. If you are not on Facebook, then you are not in the loop.” Parents have every right to feel hesitant towards social media, but with the right monitoring of it, they should be okay.
10.) According to Goldberg Goff’s article on Washington Times, it is important to not put your whereabouts on social sites. You never know who could see that. If you want to post about being at something or somewhere, do it after the fact just in case. It is better to be safe than sorry. Social media and new media can have their negatives, but there are also positives to them. Just be safe online, don’t put too much out there.
Works Cited:
"Dangers of Using the Internet." Education Purduecal. Purdue Edu, n.d. Web. 31 Mar 2014. <http://education.purduecal.edu/Vockell/CAI/Cai5/cai5dangers.htm>.
Wallace, Kelly. "The upside of selfies: Social media isn't all bad for kids." CNN. CNN, 22 Nov 2013. Web. 31 Mar 2014. <http://www.cnn.com/2013/11/21/living/social-media-positives-teens-parents/>.
Goldberg Goff, Karen. "Social Networking benefits validated." Washington Times. Washington Times, 28 Jan 2009. Web. 31 Mar 2014. <http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2009/jan/28/social-networking-benefits-validated/?page=all>.